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		<title>Have broom&#8230;will travel!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 00:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As the holidays approach us – remember that if you need errand running, event planning, house-sitting, house cleaning, pet  walking, pet-sitting, chores  &#8211; YES WE DO IT! For each new client that you refer to us – with any purchased package You get $25 CASH!]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms,geneva;">errand running, event planning, house-sitting, house cleaning,</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms,geneva;">pet  walking, pet-sitting, chores  &#8211; YES WE DO IT!</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms,geneva;"><strong>For each new client that you refer to us – </strong></span></p>
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		<title>How to Prepare for Relocation</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 16:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are several reasons why people relocate. One is because of a natural disaster. Another is because of work. There are also instances when a family has to move because of unpaid mortgage and foreclosure. Whatever the reason is for your relocation, you have to ensure that you are ready. Prepare your things as well [...]]]></description>
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<p>There are several reasons why people relocate. One is because of a natural disaster. Another is because of work. There are also instances when a family has to move because of unpaid mortgage and foreclosure. Whatever the reason is for your relocation, you have to ensure that you are ready. Prepare your things as well as yourself. These are essential so that you will be able to adjust better.</p>
<p>The preparations that you are going to make largely depend on the reason why you are relocating, the place where you are going and the people who will be moving with you. If you are moving because of work, you have to make sure that all your documents to work in that country or state is ready. You have to bring with you all requirements that might be needed for work. You should also find a place near your workplace to make it easier for you.</p>
<p>If you are going to move with your family, make sure that you are moving to a family friendly neighborhood. See to it that there is a good school for your children. It would be ideal if there were recreation parks or beaches nearby. This way, you can easily find time and activity with your children.</p>
<p>In addition to the above mentioned information, you should also keep the following in mind:</p>
<p>1. Before moving, make sure that you research about your new home. What is the weather like and when does it usually change. Learn about the society, their rules and culture. This will help prepare you for the change.</p>
<p>2. Have a checklist of what to do. It would be better if you have a time table so that you can specify what to do during that day. First you have to indicate your moving date. That will help you organize the things you need to accomplish. If you need help, hire services ahead of time. Make sure that the movers know when and where you are moving.</p>
<p>3. Gradually pack your things. Pack the things that you can ahead of time. Designate boxes for similar items and label them. Taking the extra step to label your boxes will greatly help you find the things you immediately need when you reach your new home. You should also clean all your linens and rugs to prepare it for packing. To make it easier for you, assign each member of the family to pack their own things. You can also assign them specific things to pack.</p>
<p>4. All important documents should be secured. Remember, almost all actions you are going to take such as enrolling your children or filing for loans will require original documents.</p>
<p>5. Make sure that you inform your friends and family about your new address and contact information. You should also inform the local authorities and other parties that will need it.</p>
<p>Your preparation will be a great factor on how you will feel once you are in your new home. This will greatly help you and your children adjust to the new place easily.</p>
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		<title>Making arrangements after a death in the family</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 19:05:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When a loved one passes away, there are arrangements and decisions to be made. This can be a difficult time emotionally, and managing the details can be overwhelming. Below is a list of the initial process that needs to take place, but remember you aren’t alone. Two More Hands can assist you through this difficult [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 18.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">When a loved one passes away, there are arrangements and decisions to be made. This can be a difficult time emotionally, and managing the details can be overwhelming. Below is a list of the </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">initial </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">p</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">rocess that needs to take place, but remember you aren’t alone. </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;"><strong>Two More Hands</strong></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;"> can assist you through this difficult time, managing many of these tasks.</span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 18.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></p>
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<li><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><strong><span style="font-size: small;">The Funeral Home</span></strong></span><br />
<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">One</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;"> of the </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">first call</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">s</span></span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">to be made to </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">is to a funeral home. If the deceased is in a hospital </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">(</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">or other kind of care setting</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">)</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">, the facility&#8217;s staff</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> will make these calls for you, although you will need to decide which mortuary service you would like to use</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">. </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">T</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">he </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">staff at the funeral home will then take the lead and work with you and the other </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">with family members</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> to orchestrate the details of the care of the body, the service, and burial.</span></span><br />
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<li><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><strong><span style="font-size: small;">Clergy</span></strong></span><br />
<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">After the funeral home has been contacted; you will usually need to call a member of the clergy (if the deceased has an affiliation).</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> A</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> pastor or minister will </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">usually conduct the religious service; however, funeral homes often have a staff member who can lead a service if a religious service is not a good fit. This person </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">can</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> also handle ar</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">ranging speakers to do a eulogy, (read more about </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.charlotte-personal-assistant.com/writing-eulogy/" target="_blank">writing a eulogy</a></span></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">)</span></span><br />
<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span> </li>
<li><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><strong><span style="font-size: small;">Determine </span></strong></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><strong><span style="font-size: small;">Budget</span></strong></span><br />
<span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">The cost of funeral arrangements can be staggering</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">, and cost of burial can be an indelicate discussion</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">. </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #000000"><span style="font-size: small;">However, </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">f</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">uneral homes generally provide a </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">variety of services and product options</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> to try to meet most budgets. However, a traditional funeral</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> at minimum costs about $6,000, (funds are often available for a “</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">pauper funeral</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">”</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> when necessary</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">)</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">. </span></span></p>
<p><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">Clergy </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">will often not charge a set amount for their services, but an </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">honorarium is customary for clergy, musicians and other professionals whose services may be engaged. </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">This is something that </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">most funeral homes will </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">include </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">as part of funeral home charges and make these payments for you. </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">Just be sure to ask to avoid any uncomfortable situations.</span></span><br />
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<li><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><strong><span style="font-size: small;">Informing friends and family</span></strong></span></li>
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<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 36.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">Many people will find out about a death of a friend of family member through word-of-mouth, but don’t assume everyone will just get the message. Be sure to personally call (or have a close family member call) those who should be told of the death immediately. Have an obituary placed in the local newspaper, and any paper that may hold significance for the deceased (former hometowns, etc.) Include the details of the service and whe</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">re donations should be directed</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">, (</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span style="font-size: small;"><a href="http://www.charlotte-personal-assistant.com/writing-obituary/" target="_blank">Read more about writing an obituary</a></span></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">).</span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 36.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 36.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">Once these initial details are handled, it is time to take a moment to grieve and work through the emotion of your loss. You may want to seek out the comfort of family, or clergy yourself. The next few days and week will be trying, so don’t hesitate to seek help.</span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 36.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span></span></p>
<p style="MARGIN-LEFT: 36.75pt; MARGIN-RIGHT: 0pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">Please give </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><strong><span style="font-size: small;">Two More Hands</span></strong></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> a call </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">at </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'"><strong><span style="font-size: small;">(704) 804-1761</span></strong></span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">to assist you </span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">during this difficult time and to</span></span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;">celebrate</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> the life of your loved one</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial'; COLOR: #333333"><span style="font-size: small;"> in a way that is least stressful for you.</span></span></p>
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		<title>How to write an obituary</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Aug 2009 19:12:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Writing an Obituary Customary information includes: Full legal name of the deceased (nickname may be included in parenthesis) City or town of residence To avoid having the residence robbed while the family is attending the calling hours and funeral, specific information about the residence of the deceased and relatives should never be published. Relative list [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Writing an Obituary</span></h2>
<p><strong><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Customary information includes:</span></strong></p>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Full legal name of the deceased (nickname may be included in parenthesis)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">City or town of residence </span>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">To avoid having the residence robbed while the family is attending the calling hours and funeral, specific information about the residence of the deceased and relatives should never be published.</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Relative list including: </span>
<ol type="A">
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Predeceased list (relatives who have died)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Survived by list (relatives that are still alive) </span>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Parents</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Sons</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Daughters</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Grandchildren</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Great Grandchildren</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Sisters</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Brothers</span></li>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Work history</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Place and time of the funeral and any calling hours</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Place of burial</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Optional information could include: </span>
<ol type="A">
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Special interests such as hobbies</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Associations (such as membership in local or national organizations.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Special Affiliations (such as volunteer work for the A.S.P.C.A., etc.)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Military service</span></li>
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<p><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Obituaries can be written at the time of death or before. Many people find it helpful to <strong>write their own obituary notice in advance</strong> for the following reasons:</span></p>
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<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">The surviving family members might not remember, or may struggle to remember, specific dates (birth, employment, retirement, previous deaths).</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">They might not know proper spellings of people&#8217;s names, places, companies or organizations.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">They might not know all of the deceased&#8217;s memberships to volunteer organizations and community clubs.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">The self-written obit could specify a favorite charity for donations that the surviving family wouldn&#8217;t have thought of.</span></li>
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